reconciling (Adjective) — Tending to reconcile or accommodate; bringing into harmony. ex. "This process is called reconciling or balancing the chequebook"
reconciling (Verb) — Make (one thing) compatible with (another). ex. "The scientists had to reconcile the new results with the existing theories"
reconciling (Verb) — Bring into consonance or accord. ex. "reconcile one's goals with one's abilities"
reconciling (Verb) — Come to terms. ex. "After some discussion we finally reconciled"
reconciling (Verb) — Accept as inevitable. ex. "He reconciled himself to his fate"